tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3263854726392102311.post4813426126194948897..comments2023-03-27T05:01:10.893-05:00Comments on All That Jazz: Sin and Temptation: Whose Responsibility Is It?Bethanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11369943790276795144noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3263854726392102311.post-66296943810776087462013-07-17T10:53:23.016-05:002013-07-17T10:53:23.016-05:00Thank you for this post. I have been reading so ma...Thank you for this post. I have been reading so many 'modesty' and 'anit-modesty' (for lack of a better term) posts the past few days trying to sort out all of what I've been taught growing up and what I believe to be true for myself now that I'm an adult and married with a daughter of my own. The biggest thing that it has come down to so far, is that I was taught that for a man to even look at a pretty woman and appreciate her beauty was wrong. That is what has been such a struggle with me, especially since getting married. I felt like I was in a constant battle to always make sure I looked better than the women around me (at least in my husband's eyes) to protect him from being 'tempted'. I must say it was exhausting!! I really liked the paragraph where you said 'this implies that there's some sort of switch that turns on as soon as a couple gets married and turns off to every other female.' whew, my mind is still racing and I need to think for a while! Thanks again for writing this!! <br />MeganAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com